TRUST ISSUES

Aha, Star Shooter punya topik pada hari ini ialah :

T R U S T  I S S U E S

For me trust issues bukan satu perkara yang light - sebab ia memang rumit. Macam saya,  i can believe people for a moment then saya doubt diorang...bukan sebab diorang jahat, but i just don't trust myself to trust them...i feel vulnerable...that's me! Actually, ramai lagi kat luar sana yang macam saya...We would like to overcome trust issues but memang hard.

Anywhere you go,

Anyone you meet,

Remember that your eyes, can be your enemy,

I said well,

Hell is so close and Heaven's out of reach

* credit to : band Augustana

 Aha, i'm interested kat verse "Remember that your eyes, can be your enemy"...It's true..Sebab semua yang kita nampak tak semestinya betul...and mungkin sebab that interesting-verse itu, saya become more cautious..bukan more..but extremely cautious!... "I said well, Hell is so close and Heaven's out of reach"....just ignored that part...tak termasuk lam topik pun..but Augustana memang best...try lah all lagu diorang...



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Nampak tak quote tu? Seriously, that's the fact...when you go around and screw things up, you'll lose all the trust..but to gain only a trust..only a trust...it takes a lot of hardwork..and the chance is 50-50..sebab once a person had been betrayed...diorang serik la..if they give you the chance, you're considered lucky. For me, trust issues tu memang ada...especially when it comes to relationship and boys... In term of relationship, memang percentange to doubt my future partner tinggi..like 70%...

so high? y?

It's insanely high.. tapi tak sangat sebab i'm sure there r girls out there yang completely tak percaya boys langsung....30% lagi tu, saya percaya..sebab..firstly, diaorang ialah my old best guy friends...secondly, my instinct told me " you can trust that guy "...aha, sounds crazy rite? but i am crazy lol...bukan mental gitu yang jalan terhuyung-hayang *mind my spelling - coz am a spelling nazi*

...hahaha...

How to earn someone's trust?

Camne? how?

Jujur

Semua org tahu, nak dapatkan kepercayaan seseorang, we need to be JUJUR! But how "jujur" is "jujur"? rite? Korang amalkan jugak ke "white lies"? White lies? what in the world is that? Ala, spoil la...gi google nuh..kalau malas gok...white lies is a lie that is told in order to be polite or xnak upsetkan seseorang...kiranye baik la juga lima puluh sen...but for me, saya suka if seseorang itu just tell the truth out of him/her..Truth hurts tapi better hurts now than bleed in the end...Sebab when we bleed, akan ada scar...scar memang susah nak hilang walaupun the pain has long gone...scar also reminds us on how hard kita dah try to seal the wound and hope it will be sealed forever! Kejujuran is the key!

Don't Start Lying

Don't start it! Why? Sebab...once you started to tell lies..you can't stop it...Nape pulak? Because, you will tell more lies to back up another lies...IKR? Telling lies is not an option la...Well, it's an option if you want to doom your life...ok back to business....cuba gambarkan senario ni :

Ada sorang boy ni...dia suka sangat kat sorang girl ni...tapi girl tu anggap dia as friend...that boy pun patah hati..and that boy pun try suka kat bestie kepunyaan girl tadi...and to his astonish, bestie kepunyaan girl yang dia syok gile tu tadi suka kat dia...wow...tapi kan, dia still sayang and suka kat girl tadi...but bestie kepunyaan girl yang dia syok gile tu suka kan dia...so he tried to suka dekat bestie kepunyaan girl yang dia syok gile tu to make her jealous...biarpun dia tak ikhlas sebenarnya suka kat bestie kepunyaan girl yang dia syok gile tu....and bla3..*panjang malas nak taip*

Wow...kesian kat bestie girl tu...She thought that guy memang suka kat dia..tapi sebaliknya...That guy to pun satu..if he likes that girl...go on chase her...tak yah nak buat si dia tu jealous dengan suka kat girls lain...Tak fair for other girls..

I know...not all boys macam tu...Actually, i'm not blaming the boys completely..sebab tak adil..mentang2la saya ni girl..so saya nak menangkan the girls..nope...saya tak suka jadi bias...Girls pun sama...they shouldn't toy with boys' feeling...we should respect each other feeling...by telling the truth..bukan dengan lies...

p/s : senario tu based on true story :) Cheers!

Aha, that's all...

Done..!